On the left, the classic Sgt. Slaughter toy. Right; his total body makeover.

There’s so much blah blah blah about how girls are intimidated by media images that drive them to stop eating, or over-eat, or cause whatever their girly self-image problems are.

Everybody seems to forget the boys. Not only are we expected to be barrel-chested studs, of the heterosexual variety of course, but every single thing a little boy does is a jugement on his masculinity. Boys don’t play with Barbies! That’s a sissy game. You’re not a man if you do this or that, a boy is seen as weak if he’s not somebody’s idea of what it means to “be a man.”

So basically, stop bitching ladies. Boys are getting a message too.

I’m not out to change the world (too much effort not enough reward) but I can change myself. My choice is to define myself; fuck all else.

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  • Cogent Ascending

    I like this post a lot. You could expand upon it if you wanted because I think a symptom of the problem ur discussing is the habit of not discussing this. I'm gonna feature this post when I get home if you don't mind.

  • http://www.betterby30.com Westopher

    That's cool I definitely should expand on it or write another post in the future…would be very interested to hear your thoughts on the subject!

  • Michael Rivers

    This is very very true! Boys are under just as much pressure. I see it all the time. Good post.

  • Dave

    Yeah more power to you, why should weight problems just be for girls, boys are under equal pressure,Great post thankyou